Halfway between Ulaanbaatar and Kharkhorin, we stopped for the night with a herder family out on the open steppe. From outside a ger is a white felt dome; around it is a whole working farm, and in May 2024 we got to be part of it for an evening.
Walking out into nothing
First order of business: put the bags down and walk straight out into the grass. The scale out here does something to your head. There are no fences until the livestock pens, no roads, just a bare hill deciding where the horizon goes.
The family
Our hosts live here year round with their kids, their herd, a satellite dish and a couple of solar panels. No shared language beyond hello, which turned out to be plenty.
Bringing the herd home
At dusk the whole family turned out to bring the goats into the pens, and we were handed the newborns. This is apparently a chore for them. For us it was the highlight of the entire country.
Inside the ger
Then the door closed on all of it and we were inside the dome: stove in the middle, beds around the edge, tea on the table.
No plumbing, no city glow, just the stove ticking as it cooled. We slept better there than in most hotels, and we have been recalibrating our definition of comfort ever since.